Sunday, March 2, 2008

A Looooong Weekend in Singapore

2 March 2008
Sunday

Nope, it definitely wasn't a holiday. I surely wished it was since I badly needed one. At any rate, I think that the trip was okay.


Saturday, Feb 23
Arrived in the afternoon from Manila. Stayed at Fairmont Hotel.











Went to the Night Safari in the evening.

  • Tram ride was a good experience. One of them damn deer got run over after that mini stampede. Good thing it turned out still alive and manage to still run away.
  • Dinner at Ulu Ulu Restaurant was sumptuous! As usual, I gorged on Japanese food although I had a few Chicken Tandoori... yummy. For dessert, I splurged on ice cream.
  • My tummy felt funny. Good thing we arrived on time at the hotel before my innards gave way. HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Sunday, Feb 24
Mass at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd
.
Lunch at Hard Rock Cafe

  • Food was okay but service was slow.
Visited the Science Center

Monday, Feb 25
Attended a talk and walkthrough at SMU (Singapore Management University) Checked out the National Museum of Singapore
  • They have this "companion" gadget that serves as your own private tour guide. Real cool. I like the way they presented things in that museum. Not too interactive yet very informative.
Tuesday, Feb 26
Shopping at Fun Nam for those techie stuff. I got myself a Sony Cybershot DSC-T70 at half the price here in Manila. The PS3 is roughly Php16K there.


Whole afternoon at Sentosa. If there is anything I enjoyed, that would be The Luge and the Light and Sound Show at night with the use of lasers, fountains, and firew
orks. One of the performers there (Cheryl) is drop-dead gorgeous!!! *major drool*

Wednesday, Feb 27

Last minute preps
then off back home to Manila.

I really don't know who this looker is, but I took a photo of her during breakfast at Kopi Tiam. Testing my new cam, I felt bad though that I had to charge it for 8 hours. Meaning, I didn't take it with me to Sentosa. I must say though, that this babe is OOOO-LALA!!!

One of my stress relievers...

2 March 2008
Sunday



My dearest nephew, Tyler.

Feel sorry though for the little fellah. Born in Virginia cold climate and all, he has yet to get used to the humid and tropical heat we have here. Hence he has all these rashes on his face.

But this little guy really brightens up the home. Such a happy kid, he smiles a lot. His head and nape reminds us of my paternal grandfather. I swear, anyone from our family who sees Tyler's back of the head would say that he looks exactly like Grandpa Flo.

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Alphans in the aid of a Fellow Argonaut.

1 March 2008
Saturday

Alphan Pride.


That's what makes us (among others) stand out above the rest. With Brod Dante Madriaga's plight, more brods come to his aid. For security reasons, I can't divulge the names and what forms of help we have given Dante'66.

Romy Nones'73, our present TAFI Chairman said:

He has continuously expressed his pride of being a Tau Alphan. Once, during a gruelling 3-hour grilling by the technical working group of the senators, he was asked if there is a chance that he will recant his testimony, he said " Tau Alphan ako. Hindi kami umaatras sa laban. At kung umatras ako, ano pang mukha ang ihaharap ko sa mga brods ko."

Friday, February 29, 2008

One Alphan to another...

29 February 2008
Friday

Brod Dante Madriaga TA'66A...

... we, your fellow Argonauts of U.P. Diliman support you regardless of our own personal political affiliation. We do join you on your quest for The Truth of which we call our Golden Fleece.

Our prayers Brod, to you, Aileen and your kids.

Alpha, Alpha, fight, fight!!!

TA'90D

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Eye-o-din, Eye-o-deen, or Eye-o-dayn?

17 February 2008
Sunday

We were having lunch today when we introduced to Jane (my younger bro's S.O. and Tyler's mom) the seaweed we called "latok."

And so, we were saying that such stuff is rich in iodine that prevents goiter. Now, my old man corrected me when I pronounced the element as "eye-o-dayn." He said it's "eye-o-din." I countered by saying it's the same thing as alumi-NUM and alumi-NYUM.

"Nonsense," he says as his professor in Chemistry 18 (they used to have this back in the 60's) would always emphasize the (alleged) correct pronunciation.

With this I laughed off, "Haha! Dad, you took that Chem subject three times!!! HAHAHA!"

I should know.

When I was a sophomore, I was caught by my dad in my room stifling a cry. I knew I had it coming, and I had my classcards ready to present them to him... my first failing mark: Math 100 (Introduction to Calculus). A consistent honor student from grade school to high school, it was even preposterous for me to even think that I would fail a subject one day.

Damn, was I so wrong.

I thought I could wing it but I guess I finally met my match. Mr. Jayjay Javier's class gave me a rude awakening: It's not that easy to survive in the State University. You have to prove your worth.

I was a bit surprised that my encounter with Dad after showing him a "5.0" in Mathematics 100 did not involve any fire, brimstone, whacking, or even those dreaded two-words --- "You're grounded." Instead, he asked me if I did my best. And if so, there is nothing for me to be ashamed about. Just do my best and study hard. So he instructed me to go to the Registrar's Office and check out his Grade Jacket where his Form 5's are that shows his marks for each semester that he had at U.P.

And so I did.

Checking out his nearly colored brown jacket I opened it and was astonished seeing a lot of red marks of "5.0's"!!!

"So, son, what did you see?" he says, that day during dinner time.

"Dad, you failed Chem 18 twice! You had lots of 5.0's!!!"

And my mom interjected, "...and that didn't stop your Dad from being a topnotcher in his board exams, getting the highest score in the toughest section of the exam, and eventually being one of the top managers and geologists in the country."

That changed my perspective completely.

And yes, I had more "5.0's" (but three short of Dad's total) semesters later yet I think I still turned out fine.

I should know, I'm a proud graduate of the University of the Philippines.

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Bonifacio Revisited

6 February 2008
Wednesday

Here is an intriguing and very interesting read written by my brod Dante B.'77. Gives me a whole new perspective...

Read on.

How to cure a sick culture

One aspect of my job as an Engineering & Manufacturing Technology Specialist is to find ways to improve the process. When a negative trend occurs, a root cause analysis is required to prevent reoccurrence, inform the workforce, and improve the culture. With this in mind, I decided to write this article after witnessing a number of incidents that showed a negative cultural trend. These incidents happened in the Los Angeles area in the early 1990s, but similar situations occurred among Filipino organizations in other cities in the U.S.

The events concerned three local organizations: the alumni associations of the University of the Philippines and Ateneo University, as well as Radyo Pinoy (a CB radio hobby group). These groups had similar experiences. They had normal disagreements, but what followed wasn’t. Instead of making up by finding common ground, some members decided to quit and form rival groups. In one case, the feud was serious enough that it ended in court! In Radyo Pinoy’s situation, new chapters sprung up as a result of internal conflicts. In a five-mile radius, there were 5 chapters. This was extraordinary because distance or communications were non-factors. CB’s range thousands of miles and every member owned cars. Yet they couldn’t find common ground to unite. This wasn’t normal for educated people for education teaches unity based on common goals. This spurred me to do a root cause analysis for such odd behavior and take appropriate action to reverse the trend.

I was disappointed when the cause led to the second most popular national hero, Andres Bonifacio, my idol since Philippine Science High. If heroes were meant to be role models, then the members of these fractious organizations were consciously or subconsciously imitating the infamous act that led to Bonifacio’s execution. In that incident, Bonifacio attempted to split the revolutionary movement by forming a rival group after losing the leadership. With its possible impact on Filipinos, I decided to research whether Bonifacio deserved to be a national hero or villain. The results were more disappointments. What Bonifacio did reflects the modern ills of Philippine society. Here are some of the results in timeline.

- July 7, 1892, Katipunan, the secret organization that will eventually lead the fight for Philippine independence was founded in Manila by a group of natives. The first president or supremo was Deodato Arellano. Bonifacio was the first comptroller.

- Feb. 1893, Roman Basa replaced Deodato Arellano for being ineffective.

- 1894, Tomas Remigio accused Andres Bonifacio of mismanaging Katipunan funds.

- Early 1895, Andres Bonifacio deposed Roman Basa as supremo due to disagreements over the management of Katipunan funds and personal issues.

- Aug. 19, 1896, Teodoro Patino exposed the Katipunan to Father Jil of Tondo. It was Bonifacio’s idea to implicate innocent Filipinos who wished to remain neutral by drafting fake documents against them. More than 500 were imprisoned, tortured, or executed based on pretext.

- Aug. 29, 1896 – Bonifacio failed to give the signal for a coordinated uprising at midnight. He overslept. Bonifacio’s tardiness was partially blamed for their defeat.

- Early Dec. 1896, 2,000 soldiers and 6,000 rifles arrived from Spain. On Dec. 17, Bonifacio went to Cavite in order to settle the feud between the two dominant Katipunan factions, the Magdalo and the Magdiwang. It was written that Bonifacio already lost the fight in his areas of Manila and Morong. According to two Jesuit historians, Andres lost all twenty-seven (27) of his battles. The last province left able to fight was Cavite. Andres would be welcomed at the border by Emilio Aguinaldo and Edilberto Evangelista. Emilio would later get elected as the first president of the republic. Edilberto, a native of Manila with an engineering degree from Belgium, would later die from a sniper’s bullet. Edilberto was responsible for training the natives in trench warfare. Emilio Aguinaldo and other prominent Magdalo’s wished for Edilberto the presidency because he was educated and effective. It was reported after that meeting that Aguinaldo & Evangelista had the same impression. That Bonifacio acted like "parang Diyos" one who suffers from god complex. The 27 defeats weren’t enough to humble the supremo.

- Dec. 29, 1896 – the first attempt (the 2nd would be Tejeros Convention) to consolidate the Katipunan factions through an election was held in the house of Baldomero Aguinaldo (then leader of Magdalo) in Imus. The event quickly fell apart thanks to Andres Bonifacio’s lack of decorum, divisive action and arrogance. From the onset, Andres invited himself to the presidential table, as well as his Magdiwang allies, to sit with him (the Magdiwang’s was led by Mariano Alvarez, a relative of Bonifacio’s wife). Andres then proceeded to preside over the occasion without allowing the homeowner and leader of the rival Magdalo faction to say anything. It was total insult. The meeting was called off without resolution.

- Feb. 16, 1897, Edilberto Evangelista, who was supposedly out of range from the ongoing battle in Binakayan, was killed by a sniper’s bullet. It was suspected to be an assassin hired by Bonifacio, because Edilberto was the biggest threat to Bonifacio’s leadership at this point.

- March 1897, Bonifacio prevented Magdiwang fighters from reinforcing the Magdalo’s who were fighting a major battle. Bonifacio went to the extent of threatening bodily harm to whoever disobeyed him. In another incident, Bonifacio handed out cash like it was his, to the Magdiwang forces that won a battle. The money came from Katipunan funds because Bonifacio was poor.

- March 22, 1897, Tejeros convention/election was held. A great majority of voters were Bonifacio’s men and his Magdiwang allies. The result, all elected officers except the presidency was Magdiwang’s. Emilio Aguinaldo, the only Magdalo and president-elect, was absent during this event; he was leading his men in the battle of Salitran. Bonifacio didn’t win any post because even his own men knew he was incapable of leading. This was an example of democracy that worked because it was able to expel the ineffective without bloodshed.

- March 24, 1897 Gen. Crispulo Aguinaldo (Emilio’s brother), who assumed command in order for Emilio to take his oath of office, was killed in the battle of Salitran.

- April 29-30, 1897, during the trial of the Bonifacio brothers in Naic, it was divulged that Andres refused to honor the result of the Tejeros Convention. That Andres tried to form a splinter group and paid an assassin to kill Emilio Aguinaldo.

- May 10, 1897, the Bonifacio brothers were executed for treason.

- Early 20th century, the Bonifacio letters were touched up, improved, or forged.

- 1932, Philippine Congress declared Nov. 30 Bonifacio Day, one of only two national holidays named after individuals (the other was Jose Rizal).

Before passing judgment, I’d like to share this story for perspective. It happened to a country with better unity and loyalty. Thanks to farsighted founding fathers that understood their choice of heroes and villains will likely become the blueprint for the national conscience.

It involved the most brilliant general of the American Revolution. A man who won so many battles that if not for a bullet to the leg that ended his military career, he could have taken Canada for the US. In one victory, they were outnumbered 20-to-1. Yet, this man turned traitor for he tried to set the capture of George Washington to the British. His name was Benedict Arnold. There’s a statue of his likeness in New York State without his name. For even today, the name Benedict Arnold stands for treachery, the biggest obstacle to nation building. The Americans anticipated the consequences if Arnold got a favorable verdict; his bad example would be copied. I believe the negative cultural pattern in the Philippines was the result of Bonifacio being declared a national hero. Comparing outcomes, it’s obvious the American founding fathers made the right call. They had the foresight to anticipate that elevating a man guilty of treason to hero status was like poisoning the mind or injecting virus to a computer. The result will be total system failure. By branding Arnold a traitor, American founding fathers started a positive cultural pattern for future generations to follow. Comparing Arnold’s plan to sell Washington to the British and Bonifacio’s idea of starting a civil war in the midst of revolution would be like surgical cut to major depopulation. Yet as bloody as Bonifacio’s plan was compared to Arnold, Bonifacio became a Philippine national hero while Arnold the unofficial "national villain" of America! The Americans knew the importance of setting high standards for their heroes.

It’s worth noting Bonifacio’s character traits, for his mirrors the worst in modern Philippine society. I’m referring to the pride, divisiveness, corruption, crab-mentality, and last but not least, selfishness. For it was said that all sins stem’s from selfishness. Bonifacio deserved to be called the most selfish revolutionary of his generation. He chose self-interest over greater the good. For this, he shouldn’t be considered a true warrior. With these in mind, it could be said that the congressional act of 1932 was the catalyst for the corruption of modern Filipino psyche (pilipit na katwiran). For that irresponsible stroke of legislative pen pried the pegs of reason and virtue off the cultural foundation, plunging the country into dysfunction. For morality and critical thinking was replaced by what could be termed the Andres Bonifacio complex. These are splitting the organization to form a rival group, showing extreme pride after committing shameful acts and refusing t o relinquish power. His elevation to heroism condemned future generations to unjust suffering by holding on to wrongful or superficial values. Isn’t it amazing how a talented hard-working people, with solid basics at hand by the middle of the 20th century, managed to squander everything? It’s like inheriting a bad habit of snatching defeat from the jaws of victory.

In case this article offends any one, please accept my apologies. I felt this obligation to reverse the trend for the sons and daughters of the Philippines to have a better future. On the other hand, if you see its merit, please contact your legislators: the senators, congressmen and women, to undo what the Philippine Congress did in 1932. It is time to cast the name Andres Bonifacio from the roster of Philippine national heroes. A decent country deserves a better role model than a "hero" with a legacy of conceit, deceit and defeat.

Dante G. Balacanao, Los Angeles, Ca.

Yup, another one of them U.P. Swagger...

6 February 2008
Wednesday

Please share this to all of our fellow Maroons.

UP
made you in such a way that when the world is sitting, you would be standing...


And when the world is standing, you would stand out.

And when the world stands out, you would be outstanding.

And when the world tries to be outstanding, you would be the standard. (In short, nagiging pasaway!)

Isang masaya at may-yabang na sentenaryo sa inyo, taga-UP!!! 1908-2008

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

UP Ang Galing Mo!

16 January 2008
Wednesday

Yes, this is the U.P. Centennial Song that Brod Herbie Rosales TA'61 composed for our beloved alma mater.

Alpha, Alpha, Fight! Fight!

Monday, January 14, 2008

My U.P. Centennial Surprise for Dad.

14 January 2008
Monday

I didn't inform my Dad that I sponsored one tree at the University Oval right in front of the U.P. Theater beside the Carillon. There were only 100 trees available and our frat got 16 of them. Each sponsored tree has a corresponding banner with lights decorating the tree during the night. It was lighted during the kickoff with each tree symbolizing
a year of U.P.

Anyway, our banners were the only ones different from the others. All the rest were generic of maroon letters on white background. Our banners are personalized with our names in large fonts, with matching seal.

We were at our tambayan at the Engg co
rner when I told him I have a surprise for him but we had to walk first.

Intrigued, he kept badgering me what the surprise is and why is there a need to walk. I plainly told him to just follow me and I'll show him why. Darn, Pops can be so belligerent at times!

Anyway, he already spotted the banner from afar, and he hurried towards it. He saw our family name in big bold letters. Our first names
were a bit small compared to the family name.

Man, was he so happy!

Mom took our picture. Herbie Rosales TA'61, our brod who composed the U.P. Centennial Song, happened to pass by as well and joined our photo ops.




Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Hangover after the Centennial Kickoff...

9 January 2008
Wednesday

Typing this at work barely keeping myself awake. I had four cups of coffee already and yet my body longs for my bed...

Started drinking at our tambayan at U.P. around 2:30pm. Left and went home at around 11pm. Had to report for work at 7am...

... damn.

I really need to get some sleep. *YAWN!*

Monday, January 7, 2008

It's a great year to be a Maroon... and a greater one to be An Argonaut!


7 January 2008
Monday

Of course, it's always a great to be a Maroon year in, year out. But what makes it so special this year is that all UPians will be celebrating our beloved alma mater's Centennial Anniversary.

Damn, I'm so friggin proud to be a Maroon. It's in my blood, it's in my soul. People outside U.P. do not fully realize nor do they fully appreciate the swagger that is very common among the Iskolars ng Bayan. If they only knew the hardships that we had to go through just to graduate from U.P....

... yeah, if only they knew.

Anyway, another thing to be proud of is my Fraternity's active involvement in this once-in-a-lifetime celebration.

It was us through Brod Joel Ajero'66 who made the Centennial Cauldron of which the Centennial Flame will be ignited. Supported by a tripod, the making of The Cauldron is financed through the generosity of The Grand Alliance as symbolized by the tripod. This Triumvirate is composed of the Alpha Phi Omega, Sigma Rho, and the Tau Alpha fraternities. Worth Php 150,000, the Cauldron was evenly shared by each fraternity at 50K.

It was Brod Herbie Rosales'61 who composed the Centennial Song which was sung live at the U.P. Carillon and aired this morning on television on GMA7.

We also sponsored at least 15 trees that would be part of the Lighting of the Trees Ceremony tomorrow night. Our trees would be very conspicuous since as of this morning, we have our banners hanging in every tree that we sponsored. In each tree we have our names and our Frat Batch indicated. Dad and I sponsored one tree. Yes, Dad and I belong to the same fraternity. He is Batch 1964 and I'm Batch 1990.

My Fraternity?




The Tau Alpha Fraternity of the U.P. College of Engineering founded in 1932.








Friday, December 28, 2007

20 Years and counting...

28 December 2007
Friday

Last night I attended the 20th Anniversary Alumni Homecoming of my high school batch of 1987. It gives you roughly an idea of how old I am so go figure.

The night was a blast! Alcohol was overflowing, the food was delicious but not too heavy, and the company was anything but dull.

There was a lot of catching up to do especially for those who are based abroad and came just to attend this special day.

Wow.

Nostalgic really as we had our venue at the school's Multi-Purpose Hall. The Hall has changed just a wee bit, I still wonder if the curtains at the stage have tasted a wash after all those years.

We can feel the camaraderie despite our different groups and barkadas during our high school days. Maturity does wonders in bridging the gap. There were a few teasings here and there especially for those who were once an item during our younger years. Some of these couples eventually end up together and raise a family but most of us ended up with someone else.

Hell, my ex-GF who happened to be the lead vocalist of this nice band was still her cool and accommodating self. There was hardly any tension between us as we had our pictures taken... well, the kiss was still nice and cute but that was just about it.

We sang and danced with the 80's music reverberating through the Hall. Yup, we cans still remember those dance steps as well. I wished that someone had the idea of putting up a motif by wearing 80's fashion and hairdo's but then again, that would take A WHOLE LOT OF FREAKIN' EFFORT.

Damn... those were the good old days.

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Quality time with my folks...

16 December 2007
Sunday

Spent the whole afternoon with my parents just at home. When others get to do some bonding moments together by going out or malling, we are just content and happy staying at home. I helped Dad install his new sound system. Something about working with him gives me great joy and pleasure.

Gave Mom a massage. She's into this tampong pururot about she not being taken cared of... *Sigh!* That's my mother dearest. Spoiled in the family coz she's the only girl. Hehehe...

Sunday, November 25, 2007

If only the culprits get to read this...

25 November 2007
Sunday


MMDA REGULATIONS NO. 97-003

PROVIDING STIFFER PENALTIES FOR ILLEGAL/UNAUTHORIZE D COUNTERFLOW TRAFFIC VIOLATION IN ALL ROADS IN METRO MANILA

WHEREAS, it has been observed that the rampant and repeated disregard of traffic rule on “illegal counterflow” or “unauthorized counterflow” has been one of the major causes of traffic congestions and accidents in the metropolis;

WHEREAS, MMDA Ordinance No. 4, s. 1995 (Prescribing Guidelines for Suspension / Revocation of Driver’s License with the Jurisdictional Boundary of Metro Manila) considers “illegal counterflow” violation merely as an additional ground for suspension/revocati on of driver’s license;

WHEREAS, there is need for the imposition of stiffer penalty on existing traffic violations considered intentional in order to curb the rising incidents of vehicular accidents and to alleviate the worsening traffic situation in Metro Manila which has grown to an alarming and emergency proportion;

WHEREAS, the Metropolitan Manila Development Authority (MMDA), through the Metro Manila Council (Council), is mandated by law to set the policies concerning traffic in Metro Manila, to regulate the implementation of all programs and projects concerning traffic management, and to fix, impose and collect fines and penalties;

WHEREAS, the council in session assembled resolved to provide stiffer penalty for illegal counterflow, violation in all roads in Metro Manila.

NOW THEREFORE, pursuant to section 6 of RA 7924, this Regulation is hereby adopted and promulgated by the Metro Manila Council, that:

SECTION 1. Illegal or Unauthorized Counterflow . – For purposes of this Regulation “illegal counterflow” shall mean going against the flow of traffic such as counterflow on one-way street and driving on the wrong side of the street.

SEC. 2. Coverage. Illegal or unauthorized counterflow as defined in Section 1 is hereby declared dangerous and unlawful and shall apply to all city and municipal roads in Metropolitan Manila.

SEC. 3. The driver found violating this Regulation shall be penalized by a fine Two thousand pesos (P2,000.00) per offense.

In addition, this violation shall cause the suspension of driver’s license for three (3) months on the first offense six (6) months on the second offense and revocation of driver’s license on the third offense.

SEC. 4. Any ordinance, rules and regulations and other issuances found to be inconsistent with this Regulation is/are hereby repealed or modified accordingly.

SEC. 5. This Regulation shall take effect fifteen (15) days after publication in two (2) newspapers of general circulation in Metro Manila.

Adopted: 7 August 1997. (Sgd.) PROSPERO L. ORETA, Chairman, and other members.


... they would be aware that what they habitually do is downright wrong. Are you listening jeepney and fx taxi drivers?!!!

Then again, how would one expect this MMDA regulation be followed?

1. I doubt if these drivers do e-mails or are aware that such regulation exists.

2. Even if they are not aware, traffic enforcers are not doing their job by enforcing this regulation.

If only people do their jobs the way they should...


Not everyone is happy about the people they work with...

25 November 2007
Sunday

... but man, I'm definitely not one of them.

I love my OPS team. Sure, we may have our disagreements but somehow we still work well. I guess one thing that works well for us is that we are expected to be formators since we're all school administrators
. It would be a disgrace if we don't do what is expected of us and be proper role models for both students and teachers. Most of us are from U.P. hence we have a way of putting up a culture where we can indulge in debates and arguments without having to take things personally. If I'm not mistaken, only one is from DLSU and two are from ADMU. The rest are Maroons.

I find it funny though when the women have their misunderstandings. They have a way when they *ahem*, argue.

We men are more straightforward and more often than not, go immediately and stick to the issue.




Stress is always a normal thing in any place of work. I'm very much happy though, that I work with people who make stress at work easier to bear and easier to get over with.



When Things Go Utterly Wrong...

25 November 2007
Sunday

... I still got my family with me. Though we have our differences, I can always rely on my brothers and parents to see me through the hard times. Through thick and thin, we got each other. And no, I'm not the guy with no hair even if I'm the eldest of the brood. Go figure!


Of course, the couple I'm most proud of having...
















... Dad and Mom!

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Road Rage, Temper, and Trooper


21 November 2007
Wednesday

Talk about coincidence...

...every time I use the Trooper I end up with a day with at least an incident with a fellow motorist.

There's this moron who tried to insert his vehicle at my car's expense during a long line of slow traffic in one of my alternative routes to work. It really irritates me whenever people do a counterflow so that they can get ahead and then suddenly try to get in line when there is incoming traffic.

We had a heated exchange of work as I blurted out stuff like "walang disciplina, kadiri ka, pare, jologs mo!" "kaya di umaasenso and Pilipinas dahil sa mga ulupong tulad mo!"


I was still able to move ahead but when we were finally on the main road, he cut me from my blindside and I nearly got smashed against the bus on my left. Grrr...!!!!

I cut him and blocked him, got down, and releas
ed my retractable stick... all of a sudden it felt like one of those days in college when my I and my brods of my designated strike team would make a "hit."

I could have gone to him by the driver side, and while he was caught in the slow moving traffic, I could have hit his pathetic face just sitting there like a stupid sitting duck...

...then again, it just dawned on me that it was a b
ad idea so I just let it go... he KNEW I could have made him toothless. I'm so glad I didn't do it... for my sake. The berk isn't worth it.

Then just the other day, I had issues with a "poor excuse of a man" (read: lesbian who makes this pathetic attempt to look like a man) over double parking at my brother's condominium.

I know I shouldn't gotten down her level, but man... the bad thing about me is that I couldn't stand being disrespected and talked rudely especially with the likes of this kind of a person. I've been brought up by my parents not to hit women... makes me wonder if that would include butchies. At any rate, I didn't even lift a finger though I made allusions on her laughable attempt on trying to be a man and join the man's world.

I knew I hit a nerve when I did that, and the formator in me screamed "foul!" But hey, at that time, I just couldn't handle the manner in which this person treated me. The bad person in me emphasized to her that no matter what she does, she could never have what I have... the Y chromosome.

Damn.

On a lighter note, I am raring to get a hold of the UP Centennial Commemorative Car Plate. Yeah, baby!!! U.P. Maroons, fight! I had a joke with a colleague of mine from UST: "What is 400 years of Existence compared to 100 years of EXCELLENCE!" Hehehehe...

Monday, November 19, 2007

*sigh!* Thanks again, Dad!

19 November 2007
Monday

Always trust Pops to call a spade a spade. Yes, Dad. I'm listening. I'm moving on now... the closure has been done without even having to talk to her or anyone related to her.


I guess the sentimental part of me still wants to cling on... only to realize that I'm just clinging on cold air, straws and hay at most.

12 years of my life down the drain...

... that's life.

Monday, November 12, 2007

I Need That Friggin' Closure...

12 November 2007
Monday

It has been months now...

...damn, woman. Why did i have to fall for someone like her in the first place?

I hate this. I really do.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

A Response to those Ignoramus

6 September 2007
Thursday

Another fraternity-related death is grabbing the news these past few days. As usual, we fratmen are judged collectively, not even realizing that fraternities, just like nation states of the same continent, are still essentially very much different from one another.

Senator Brenda is at it again. I doubt it if her proposal of abolishing fraternities will come to fruition --- too many fratmen among the lawmakers. *rolls eyes*

I posted this comment in a certain blog where people started bashing us fratmen and blaming us
collectively because of the death of Cris Mendez, who allegedly died while undergoing initiation rites of the Sigma Rho Fraternity of the U.P. College of Law.


------------ -

It's so easy for all of you to make sweeping statements and lump us all together in one bunch of crap. After all, it is so typical for people to fear, hate and bitch on things they don't know jack crap about. The fear of the unknown. The resentment of not ever knowing.

You said:

"The concept of undergoing initiation to prove commitment to the group still eludes me. What eludes me more is the point of their continuous existence right within school premises."

And it will forever elude you. Why must we explain our sacred rites and doctrines to the likes of you? Our continuous existence of at least 70 years goes beyond these senseless killings and deaths that are fraternity-related. It's so typical that negative news like this one gets more mileage than the positive things (at least as far as MY frat is concerned) we get from our organization.

Just because we are fratmen too, does that mean that we are also guilty? Guilty by mere association? That's bollocks!

I'm not here to validate or justify these deaths. Mind, we abhor them, and we make sure that things like these don't happen in OUR Fraternity.

I find all these deaths utterly senseless too. My fraternity - alumni and resident brods - do not in any way approve of them. Just like Sigma Rho, we are a very old fraternity rich in tradition, though unlike them, we NEVER had any frat-related deaths in our entire history.

And don't you dare call us elitist. Pot meet kettle, and boy is it so friggin black. U.P. in itself is an institution of the elite --- the intellectual elite --- after all, not everyone can INTELLECTUALLY afford to be in U.P.

In parting, don't associate us too with these street gangs with Greek-lettered names: tau gamma phi and alpha kappa rho come to mind. We legitimate fratmen don't recognize them as one of our ilk.